CDNTech
Senior Community Member
I've seen people call other posters liars when they claim their kid has outgrown a seat, and accuse them of just being anxious to forward face and looking for an excuse.
Although I've never said this outright, I could see how a few of my posts could be misconstrued this way.
Let me just clarify that I *don't* have a problem with a parent wanting to/turning a child FFing once they've reached the minimum limits... it is their right as the parent.
I just wanted it made clear on that thread, that it does not look like he has outgrown the seat RFing. I wanted that made clear for lurkers and was not trying to hurt the OP in any way. I tried to be tactful when posting and I'm sorry if you took it another way. I also tried to present options IF you wanted to RF him again... I did *not* say those were your only options.
I'm also a mom who has her 2 yr 8 mo old child FFing at 28lbs and I'm perfectly comfortable with that. He has not outgrown either of his seats RFing, I just made the parental decision to FF him because it is much easier to deal with the winter boots... yes, I know that's lame and if he was younger than 2 yrs we'd be dealing with them RFing, but he's looking pretty proportionate these days and I'm not as worried about keeping him RFing. Our limit on our seats here is also 30lbs and I'm just not one of those "weigh your kids everyday" kind of people.
ETA: I believe the original post had the child listed with a torso of 12.5" (not your child, but from a different board). That was the child that so many people could not believe had actually outgrown the seat RFing.
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