dawnp15
New member
I do. It's constructive, I promise.
Before I took the CPST class, I was what some might call overzealous I was one of the people who thought Britax was best and putting your kid in a scenera was not to care about him/her. I went into the CPST class with this attitude and it was NOT well received. And I was told something on the first day of class, that completely changed what kind of tech I am and how I look at my role:
We cannot ever make parents feel like their best is not enough. Not everyone can afford the fanciest seat with the newest features. If you can, and you want to, that's fine, but to represent to others that this is 'best' makes them feel inadequate that they are unable to provide the fanciest seats to their children - at which point they might just decide it's too expensive to do it 'your' way and they can't do it and they'll just go back to using their garage sale shield booster, since clearly their best efforts won't be good enough anyways. We don't want that. The goal of any car seat education is for the child to leave safER than he/she was before. If the best a parent can do is FF their two year old in a cosco hbb provided by the state? Still better than the expired, recalled shield booster he rode in in. Our goal here at c-s.org is to help everyone within the constraints of their situation, to present best practice (which is, by definition, to use the seat that fits your car, fits your child, and that you can use correctly every time) and then allow parents to make choices, guilt-free, within (or outside - they are the parents) those constraints. Sometimes parents don't choose best practice. You have to pick your battles or they'll write off *everything* you say - and better for them to stick around and learn about ERF than to run off feeling inferior and guilty about not using the slideguard clip - kwim?
I think some of us get so excited about doing the absolute *best* thing when we first learn about child passenger safety, that we forget that our primary goal is to educate and improve the safety of the general public, that not everyone can afford the same things, and that what we say with regards to our own situations can be applied by anyone reading to *their* situations. There is no best car seat. As long as you are using the car seat within the manufacturer's guidelines and according to best practice, your child is safe. The last thing we want is for anyone to feel like because they can't go *all the way* like some do, that car seat safety is not a topic applicable to their lives.
Very well said :thumbsup: