I went to my SIL house today..and I cried. Literally. She turned her 8 months old FFing. (hes a day older than DD). And when I was trying to explain to her why she shouldnt do that, I started crying . Not hysterically or anything, but it didn't get through to her either way. I told her about Internal Decapitation...about everything really...she didnt care. Not to mention that her 3 year old is in an adult seatbelt (that is when she has it on)...I even tried using the police ticket factor...didnt work. I really am just sad about the whole situation....