LittlePeanut
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My 2 y/o is RF in a MR. He still fits with room to grow in both height and weight. My goal was to keep him RF until at least 3 y/o or the limit of the seat, which he won't be until early March (3.5 months from now). RF at 4 y/o is likely ambitious for him and his size. I am now struggling with that choice. I know the safety statistics and my desire is to not turn him but I have a few concerns... He is non-verbal Autistic and very strong. I do my best to wrangle him into his seat but I'm getting bruised and sore in the process. Where I could once just fold him in half and pin him into the seat, he is now so strong that that is becoming a major struggle. I have tried bribes (toys, food, games, etc), sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. He's very inconsistent. He gets so upset that he forces himself to vomit (I keep airsickness bags at the ready for these times, which are becoming more frequent).
I am tempted to try him FF but the thought has my stomach in knots. I'm also not convinced that anything will change. I think he's just resistant to being restrained and will fight any seat, facing any direction. The thing is, once he's in his seat and gets calmed down, 95% of the time it's once we start rolling, he'll happily ride there for hours. He's content and he sleeps well in his seat everyday for his nap.
Help, what would YOU do in this situation? I'm fairly certain I know the answer and that is to continue to fight the good fight and keep him safer. I KNOW that's what's best but I'm getting worn down and exhausted from this on a daily basis.
I am tempted to try him FF but the thought has my stomach in knots. I'm also not convinced that anything will change. I think he's just resistant to being restrained and will fight any seat, facing any direction. The thing is, once he's in his seat and gets calmed down, 95% of the time it's once we start rolling, he'll happily ride there for hours. He's content and he sleeps well in his seat everyday for his nap.
Help, what would YOU do in this situation? I'm fairly certain I know the answer and that is to continue to fight the good fight and keep him safer. I KNOW that's what's best but I'm getting worn down and exhausted from this on a daily basis.