Either turn them or give them back to the CW and tell CW you will only ERF children under ____ (whatever your age is, sounds like its 4).
"Giving them back" as you so eloquently put is not only not an option, but an extremely dramatic and over the top thing to post/suggest.
22/23lbs and 34/34.5in tall.
They are still her kids. We don't know why they're in foster care.
I don't think why her children were taken away should be a factor in deciding what I choose to do. (I know you weren't saying that, quite the opposite, just sharing that viewpoint). It's definitely nothing like B's situation, though.
Case worker called me back and said she talked to her supervisor and she said that I can RF them if I want. She said if I was making them LESS safe mom would have an argument, but since I'm making them MORE safe, she said mom doesn't have a leg to stand on. Case worker said, and I quote "What is she gonna do, demand to have them moved because you're keeping them TOO safe?!" Hahaha, loved that! So they'll stay RF'ing
And for the record, lying to bios is not a regular practice for me. I've done it on just a couple of occasions in which the request was just so ridiculous that I gave mom a sarcastic "Ok" and she didn't catch the sarcasm or bing it up again. Not worth raising a stink over. Foster parents who regularly cause issues with bios quickly and mysteriously stop receiving placements around here. I choose to battle only the truly important stuff. Mom's insistence that I buy her baby a completely inappropriate pair of shoes and keep them on him all.the.time is not one of those truly important things. I bought the shoes and would put them in the diaper bag for visits, and bring baby in socks. Saved me and the case worker from a major headache based on her past behavior.