Morganthe
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I know there are those on here who don't even have TV in the house. Well, that's not us. DD weaned from naps early and instead, as substitute, watched Blue's Clues, nature, movies, and other informative stuff from 2 1/2 years old as a daily break.
Since DH has returned to swingshift, my afternoon has consisted of
... "Is Daddy going to work yet? I get to watch TV when he leaves"
Over and over and over and over for about 2 hours.
ARGH!! :hitselfonhead:
Then there's what she is doing that almost guarantees she won't see her next birthday
"Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?" (and 5 minutes later) "Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?" (and another 5 minutes later) "Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?"
Pretty soon,
:crying: :crying: :crying:
Daddy's not happy with me -- Sob, sob, sob
Then when it was time for dinner, more tears from the tv going off.
YUCK!! Too much emotional rollercoaster each day!!
With Dance camp in the morning this week and what happened on Sunday, it just seemed natural to have a tv free week for her. We've had some whining moments. But today, after she had her usual tears from my negatory, she accepted it. She didn't sleep well, so she was really fragile after class, but lunch helped a lot.
She's been playing on her own for the last hour. All relaxed and happy. I LOVE IT! No bugging daddy to leave. No nagging me on what SHE wants. It's only taken 4 afternoons to get this way too :thumbsup:
Being strict has its rewards :evil grin:
Other than keeping my mind, the ultimate goal is to implement TV as a reward, not as a matter of fact, that's what we do in the afternoon nonevent.
Anyway, I needed to gloat and feel better for a moment, as if I honestly knew what the heck I was doing for once
Since DH has returned to swingshift, my afternoon has consisted of
... "Is Daddy going to work yet? I get to watch TV when he leaves"
Over and over and over and over for about 2 hours.
ARGH!! :hitselfonhead:
Then there's what she is doing that almost guarantees she won't see her next birthday
"Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?" (and 5 minutes later) "Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?" (and another 5 minutes later) "Daddy, are you getting ready for work yet?"
Pretty soon,
:crying: :crying: :crying:
Daddy's not happy with me -- Sob, sob, sob
Then when it was time for dinner, more tears from the tv going off.
YUCK!! Too much emotional rollercoaster each day!!
With Dance camp in the morning this week and what happened on Sunday, it just seemed natural to have a tv free week for her. We've had some whining moments. But today, after she had her usual tears from my negatory, she accepted it. She didn't sleep well, so she was really fragile after class, but lunch helped a lot.
She's been playing on her own for the last hour. All relaxed and happy. I LOVE IT! No bugging daddy to leave. No nagging me on what SHE wants. It's only taken 4 afternoons to get this way too :thumbsup:
Being strict has its rewards :evil grin:
Other than keeping my mind, the ultimate goal is to implement TV as a reward, not as a matter of fact, that's what we do in the afternoon nonevent.
Anyway, I needed to gloat and feel better for a moment, as if I honestly knew what the heck I was doing for once
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