snowbird25ca
Moderator - CPST Instructor
My kids aren't allowed to fight/annoy/vex/harass each other in the car, period.
We actually don't get any problems from dd and ds, they love each other, when issues do arise, it's with the older boys (12, 13 and 16, all over 100 lb and over 5 feet tall, in seat belts) who are all obviously facing forward, and they are immediately reprimanded/threatened/beaten.
Ok, I have to ask - how do you prevent your kids from fighting? My kids are pretty typical and like to challenge the rules from time to time. It's all fine and dandy to have rules, but you can't prevent every single argument. Unless I'm missing something?
We are not ones to give in to our kid's fits and are consistent in following through with consequences, so it's not a discipline issue... kids just have a certain amount of free will which gets them in trouble from time to time. So I'm really curious how you enforce this rule to the point that disagreements never start... Maybe my kids are just oddballs in that sometimes they will choose the consequence just so that they can have a moment of doing what they want?
eta: My kids love each other too. But that doesn't mean they don't also enjoy bugging each other from time to time.