There is a shoulder belt in each position, but the middle belt is a two-piece type (they hook together) and the Odyssey owner's manual says to just use the lap-belt portion only to install a car seat there. This is a 2001 model and there is a tether anchor already installed for the middle seat, but I plan to take the car to a dealer and get the anchor installation double-checked (the anchor can spin freely around the bolt). Thanks for the help - I'm really conflicted about this!!! We've been putting my daughter in her spare Turbo Booster (third row behind the driver) for the time being, but I can barely stand it!
edited to say my dd is 5 and weighs 60 pounds
Lolly