Misty-Bug
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this may get long but worth the read trust me!!
Yesterday a friend and I went to old Navy. She was driving my car and we parked and I looked over my right shoulder and saw a mini van two cars over. I was looking cause it looked like I saw a car seat but I could SWEAR I saw a man in the back HOLDING a child. So I was looking and sure enough the dad was sitting in the back holding a child. By the looks of the head through the tinted windows the child looked to be the same age as Cooper.
So the woman went to get into her van and I glared at her and she looked at me. I made it VERY obvious that I was watching her the whole time. I even stopped a few times to check it out. So she goes to leave the parking lot and she rolled down her window and said, yes do you have a problem?
This is where the FUN starts!
I said, "why isn't your child in a car seat?"
She said, "yes she has a car seat" (communication barrier second language was english but she understood my words and spoke fine.
Me: " Well if she has a carseat why isn't she in it?"
Her: "She has a very high fever and is not feeling well"
Me: "So cause she has a high fever you are gonna kill her by driving without her in the car seat"
Her: "what does it matter to you"
Me: "It matters to me cause you are putting a CHILD's life at risk"
her: "well who are you to say something? Don't worry about what we do."
Me: "Well I am worried cause you are killing your child"
Her: "There is nothign you can do about it"
Me: "Oh don't worry, I have my contacts and my ways."
then she rolled up the window. (I was SHAKING I was SO MAD!!) Then I stood there and watched every move she made. Made mental notes about what the vehicle looked like and then watched it leave to get a liscence plate number. My friend had gone into Old Navy so I could "do my thing" (as she put it) So as the lady drove away I got the liscence plate. There was no reason for me to follow her cause I didn't have a phone. So I walk over to old navy and my friend sees me out the window. I made the sign for phone. I walked in the door and she handed me her phone.
Then I walked out and dialed 911 promtly. I said to the lady on the phone, well you will have to guide me cause I don't know if this is an emergency or not. I told her I just saw someone driving with their child on their lap. Said where I was. She said, oh yeah that is an emergency. Patched me through to the local police. When the distpatch picked up I was like "I have to rattle something off so can you write it down." You can tell I shocked her but she said go ahead. I rattled off the liscence plate number and she took my name for THEIR records and the stupid woman in the van won't know. She said there is a car near by so she would pass on the info.
I am not sure if they did anything or not but I feel somewhat better knowing that they have a liscense (sp?) plate number and I HOPE they do something. Even call the STUPID woman. The 911 lady told me I did the right thing.
I really wish I had a cell phone.
What the heck was teh woman doing out SHOPPING with her child if she had a high fever. Geez......I don't get some people.
Thanks for reading. I am shaking now just remembering it all!!!
Yesterday a friend and I went to old Navy. She was driving my car and we parked and I looked over my right shoulder and saw a mini van two cars over. I was looking cause it looked like I saw a car seat but I could SWEAR I saw a man in the back HOLDING a child. So I was looking and sure enough the dad was sitting in the back holding a child. By the looks of the head through the tinted windows the child looked to be the same age as Cooper.
So the woman went to get into her van and I glared at her and she looked at me. I made it VERY obvious that I was watching her the whole time. I even stopped a few times to check it out. So she goes to leave the parking lot and she rolled down her window and said, yes do you have a problem?
This is where the FUN starts!
I said, "why isn't your child in a car seat?"
She said, "yes she has a car seat" (communication barrier second language was english but she understood my words and spoke fine.
Me: " Well if she has a carseat why isn't she in it?"
Her: "She has a very high fever and is not feeling well"
Me: "So cause she has a high fever you are gonna kill her by driving without her in the car seat"
Her: "what does it matter to you"
Me: "It matters to me cause you are putting a CHILD's life at risk"
her: "well who are you to say something? Don't worry about what we do."
Me: "Well I am worried cause you are killing your child"
Her: "There is nothign you can do about it"
Me: "Oh don't worry, I have my contacts and my ways."
then she rolled up the window. (I was SHAKING I was SO MAD!!) Then I stood there and watched every move she made. Made mental notes about what the vehicle looked like and then watched it leave to get a liscence plate number. My friend had gone into Old Navy so I could "do my thing" (as she put it) So as the lady drove away I got the liscence plate. There was no reason for me to follow her cause I didn't have a phone. So I walk over to old navy and my friend sees me out the window. I made the sign for phone. I walked in the door and she handed me her phone.
Then I walked out and dialed 911 promtly. I said to the lady on the phone, well you will have to guide me cause I don't know if this is an emergency or not. I told her I just saw someone driving with their child on their lap. Said where I was. She said, oh yeah that is an emergency. Patched me through to the local police. When the distpatch picked up I was like "I have to rattle something off so can you write it down." You can tell I shocked her but she said go ahead. I rattled off the liscence plate number and she took my name for THEIR records and the stupid woman in the van won't know. She said there is a car near by so she would pass on the info.
I am not sure if they did anything or not but I feel somewhat better knowing that they have a liscense (sp?) plate number and I HOPE they do something. Even call the STUPID woman. The 911 lady told me I did the right thing.
I really wish I had a cell phone.
What the heck was teh woman doing out SHOPPING with her child if she had a high fever. Geez......I don't get some people.
Thanks for reading. I am shaking now just remembering it all!!!