katymyers
Active member
My MIL recently has started picking my kids up from daycare occasionally when I don't get off work on time to get them myself. In my car and my husband's car I have all three kids rear facing. My oldest is almost three and very close to the 40 lbs weight limit on all our seats so he'll be forward facing fairly soon. I put an extra base for my baby's seat and a rear facing Complete Air in my MIL's car and my oldest is riding in the built in restraint she's got in her car. I went to some effort to install the CA using LATCH and I needed some pool noodles to get a pretty good install. I was at her house yesterday and I see that the CA has been turned around. Not only has it been turned around but you can see the LATCH belts loose and for some reason the top tether was loose too. It's sitting in the seat crooked and extremely loose the seat belt isn't even locked, it's just looped through the back and buckled in. I don't know how long it's been like that or if my son was put in it like that. I don't even know if it was my MIL who did it. My husband thinks it was his brother and he put his daughter in it like that. Like I said I really don't know. My problem is I don't know what to do now. Things have been strained with my MIL lately and it would be a bad idea to confront her about anything especially since she's helping me out a lot and I REALLY need her to pick my kids up sometimes. She is my only option. So any opinions are greatly appreciated I just don't know what to do and my husband, as much as I love him, is useless when it comes to his mother.