Canadianmom-- that was a horrific story! I'm very relieved for you & your daughter that everything eventually turned out without permanent serious bodily injury -- well, except for the poor fisn
Broken-- your godson was extremely fortunate. I remember 3 separate incidents in NM during 1998 or 1997 where the young children involved were KILLED by having tvs fall on them from supposedly secure tv stands
It made me extremely conscious of TV sizes and what they're sitting on, plus training kids to not mess with it. DD STILL doesn't perform any of the functions with it -- probably because we use nothing but remotes.
I've never attached the furniture tethers to the wall. Pretty much because I've yet to see absolute security from it. The studs never seem to be where the furniture is supposed to be and I"m not attaching to sheet rock. False Security with it just being able to pull out of the wall.
Instead, I've placed rubber furniture coasters under the front legs of the dressers so they lean towards the wall instead of being so upright. It's not foolproof by any means, but it works with dd. She's easily discouraged from climbing the furniture too, so that helps. Her thing is moving chairs next to the dresser drawer or cabinet top she wants to examine and THEN standing on the chair usually her rocking chair
I've also placed one of our 'fences' across the entrance to the kitchen to block access to the entire kitchen instead of 'childproofing' it. The gate keeps dd out -- along with the dogs AND the cat
My sanctuary
I just don't believe there is such a thing as completely 'child proofing' anything. It's only making something child resistant or delayed in the hopes that an adult finds the child before harm is done. Some of the stuff they sell is absolutely useless and easily de-secured. No child should be completely happy & comfortable in a kitchen because it is inherently one of the most dangerous locales in the house. DD knows there's 'rules' before she can enter. There's certain things she can play in there -- color, playdoh, magnets, but only with an adult present. She loves to help, but she must have her hair tied back & sleeves rolled up for safety before she can do so.
jmho.