Thanksgiving_Twins_Mom
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DD2's teacher emailed to ask if i could drive to their first field trip in December so I decided to get out my :soapbox: (in a polite way, I hope)
This is what I wrote - will let you know what response I get
Hi Ms. R:
Yes, I can drive if needed to the Nutcracker trip.
FYI there was one thing about the first grade field trips last year that I found a bit distressing - some of the students (mostly boys) who didn't use booster seats in their cars were making teasing or negative comments to the kids who were still using boosters.
If possible, I'd appreciate if the students (and maybe parents) could be reminded before the field trip that being respectful to their classmates includes refraining from teasing those classmates who are still using boosters. These classmates are using boosters because their parents feel that it's an appropriate safety measure, not because they're in any way more 'babyish' than their booster-less counterparts.
And if it's not out of line, I'd really appreciate if a reference on appropriate booster usage such as the following could be either emailed to the parents or distributed in the Friday folders - I think that a lot of parents aren't aware of the safety risks of poorly-fitting seat belts on kids who meet the legal minimum for riding without a booster but who aren't yet tall enough for the lap and shoulder belts to fit them properly without a booster
http://carseatblog.com/?p=3966
And FYI, I bring extra boosters when I'm a field trip driver, and if one of my passengers doesn't fit the seat belt properly without a booster, I *will* ask that passenger to use the booster even if they don't use a booster in their own car.
OK, I'm off my soapbox for now
Elaine
This is what I wrote - will let you know what response I get
Hi Ms. R:
Yes, I can drive if needed to the Nutcracker trip.
FYI there was one thing about the first grade field trips last year that I found a bit distressing - some of the students (mostly boys) who didn't use booster seats in their cars were making teasing or negative comments to the kids who were still using boosters.
If possible, I'd appreciate if the students (and maybe parents) could be reminded before the field trip that being respectful to their classmates includes refraining from teasing those classmates who are still using boosters. These classmates are using boosters because their parents feel that it's an appropriate safety measure, not because they're in any way more 'babyish' than their booster-less counterparts.
And if it's not out of line, I'd really appreciate if a reference on appropriate booster usage such as the following could be either emailed to the parents or distributed in the Friday folders - I think that a lot of parents aren't aware of the safety risks of poorly-fitting seat belts on kids who meet the legal minimum for riding without a booster but who aren't yet tall enough for the lap and shoulder belts to fit them properly without a booster
http://carseatblog.com/?p=3966
And FYI, I bring extra boosters when I'm a field trip driver, and if one of my passengers doesn't fit the seat belt properly without a booster, I *will* ask that passenger to use the booster even if they don't use a booster in their own car.
OK, I'm off my soapbox for now
Elaine