Momof4Girls
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My dd3 is 3yr 3mos old. She has undiagnosed medical needs, varying from things that won't really impact her car seat riding to increasing muscle fatigue, low endurance, sleeping more, etc. She is a slow grower, standing just shy of 36" tall and weighing, on a heavy day, 27lbs. She is still RF, due to concerns over muscle tone issues and her 97%ile head circumference (no bone age xrays have been done, so I'm not sure what "age" her bones would be).
She has, lately, been asking to ride in her big sisters' seats (Regents), and I have not allowed that yet (not even in secondary vehicles..she's still RF full-time in all cars). She has also, on 2 occasions, pushed her chest clip down and pulled her arms through the straps, essentially riding in a lap belt situation. Only once has it happened in my car (a couple of weeks ago), the other time, it happened in my dad's car this weekend. My dd1 (who stayed with her) corrected her on it, and then told my step-mom. My step-mom told dd1 to IGNORE dd3?! When we were told about this (by dd1, not by my dad/stepmom), I commended dd1 for correctly identifying a situation that she *needed* to tell an adult (we're having issues with tattling lately...).
At any rate, any ideas on how to keep this from happening? Straps are tight, the way they should be (pinch test), etc. When it happened in my car, we stopped the car immediately and addressed the situation. However, in another's car (grandparents, etc), I cannot do that. I have also told her that if she is not going to ride in her car seat correctly, then she will not be allowed to go with grandparents' cars. But, I don't know how much of that she really "gets".
This has come to the point of, when our new baby arrives, instead of buying a new seat for the new baby, I would buy a Frontier and turn her FF so I could see her when she's doing this and pass her BLVD down to dd4 (passing the MCP down to newbie). My original plan was to buy a new convertible when my WZ expires, RF to the limits (with my younger 2 dds sizes, they will be RF for years yet, at 3.25 and 22mos, unless we choose to turn them early), and only when none of my children fit RF in the MCP would I buy a FF-only seat (probably a Frontier) for dd3 (unless dd4 actually outgrew a RF seat before dd3).
So, anyway, what do you think? How do you prevent the pushing the chest clip down and pulling arms out of it?
Raechel
She has, lately, been asking to ride in her big sisters' seats (Regents), and I have not allowed that yet (not even in secondary vehicles..she's still RF full-time in all cars). She has also, on 2 occasions, pushed her chest clip down and pulled her arms through the straps, essentially riding in a lap belt situation. Only once has it happened in my car (a couple of weeks ago), the other time, it happened in my dad's car this weekend. My dd1 (who stayed with her) corrected her on it, and then told my step-mom. My step-mom told dd1 to IGNORE dd3?! When we were told about this (by dd1, not by my dad/stepmom), I commended dd1 for correctly identifying a situation that she *needed* to tell an adult (we're having issues with tattling lately...).
At any rate, any ideas on how to keep this from happening? Straps are tight, the way they should be (pinch test), etc. When it happened in my car, we stopped the car immediately and addressed the situation. However, in another's car (grandparents, etc), I cannot do that. I have also told her that if she is not going to ride in her car seat correctly, then she will not be allowed to go with grandparents' cars. But, I don't know how much of that she really "gets".
This has come to the point of, when our new baby arrives, instead of buying a new seat for the new baby, I would buy a Frontier and turn her FF so I could see her when she's doing this and pass her BLVD down to dd4 (passing the MCP down to newbie). My original plan was to buy a new convertible when my WZ expires, RF to the limits (with my younger 2 dds sizes, they will be RF for years yet, at 3.25 and 22mos, unless we choose to turn them early), and only when none of my children fit RF in the MCP would I buy a FF-only seat (probably a Frontier) for dd3 (unless dd4 actually outgrew a RF seat before dd3).
So, anyway, what do you think? How do you prevent the pushing the chest clip down and pulling arms out of it?
Raechel