DS2 is sick, and i have to take him to the drs this afternoon, I have a friend picking up DS1, and watching him while I am at the appointment (she lives to far for me to drop him off, and I don't drive) I'm fine with me putting him in the car, that's not going to be a problem, but, I'm a little nervous that despite the fact I'll tell her not to loosen the harness, that she might decide it's to tight, and loosen it anyway, when she puts him in the car to bring him home. (she can't watch him here). Everyone else I know and trust to watch him is sick or has a sick kid, which I don't need DS1 bringing home to DS2, over and above what he already has.
I trust her driving, I've driven with her more than once before, but she does leave her DD's harness to loose in the car, because she doesn't feel like fighting with it to tighten it. Also the radian is really hard to adjust in the cold, it hasn't moved in quite awhile, and the only way I want it to move is a titch tighter (can't pinch any, but can get a finger in there)
I trust her driving, I've driven with her more than once before, but she does leave her DD's harness to loose in the car, because she doesn't feel like fighting with it to tighten it. Also the radian is really hard to adjust in the cold, it hasn't moved in quite awhile, and the only way I want it to move is a titch tighter (can't pinch any, but can get a finger in there)