Please tell me that the first ride ds takes as a ff is not going to involve an accident! I just have all these visions and horrible thoughts like the pic I just took of him in his new seat will be the last one, etc. I know it's crazy but I can't be the only one here who's had these thoughts, right?? Ugh. He's 41 in and 38.5 lbs at 3 yrs 11 mo and right at 1.5 in from the top of the xtsl. He still has room in the head wise in grandma's car but is so close to the weight limit we're obviously not going to buy one for our car and she needs a seat for him in hers anyway. We're doing the right thing, right? He's safe? I was even looking up growth charts and head size, etc. He is right on with a 5 yr old according to the head size charts I found in relation to percentage of your overall size. I just need reassurance It doesn't help that we're taking a road trip for Thanksgiving either