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Hi everyone We drive a 2008 Odyssey, but my mother-in-law had an accident in it this week with my 8 year old (thankfully no injuries, I credit my 8 year old's safety to our refusal to allow her to ride directly on the seat despite the age minimum being met in IL -- she is still a few inches short of the NTSB recommendation and the belt does not cross correctly when she is not boostered due to her disproportionately long legs-- but a pretty major collision that has left our van possibly totaled--still waiting to hear from the adjuster on that one). The rental we were given is a 2012 Dodge Grand Caravan (Crew, if that matters).
My dilemma (this will be long, sorry ):
We have 4 children, all in Britax Frontier 85 seats (that were all replaced the day of the accident-- only 1 had a restrained child, but the airbag system deployed, so we opted to play it safe and replace all 4 seats-- insurance will reimburse for the 1 in use)-- ages 2.5-8.5 (the 8yo has outgrown harnessing, but hers is the only one in booster mode).
In our Odyssey, we had all seats tethered (2nd row LATCH installed, 3rd row belt path/tether because the LATCH is only in the center, but tethers in all positions-- of course booster just tethered). My understanding is that the booster mode seat absolutely has to be tethered with her weight (about 66lbs), and the other 3rd row is my 6 year old (harnessed), and he is about 55lbs, so I prefer that he is tethered as well. The 2.5 and 4.5 year olds ride in the 2nd row, because neither is proficient in buckling and unbuckling consistently without help (the 2 year old obviously can't at all lol, and the 4 year old has difficulty depressing the crotch strap button).
The rental Dodge only has a tether in the 3rd row-- my understanding is that 2 seats should not be tethered to the same anchor point, and this one is in the center (leaving us no space on either side to install another Frontier 85 with the belt path next to it-- I may be wrong, but I feel like due to the weight of the seat, the booster mode F85 should have that tether if a choice has to be made). My daughter does not fit in the low or high back boosters from other manufacturers (they are too narrow-- she has a skinny frame, but her hip span prevents a comfortable fit) that do not need to be tethered, and the 85 in the center position obscures all the buckle access for both outboard positons anyway.
We have the rental company looking for an alternative vehicle in the area for us, but they have had no luck so far and we need to be able to drive our kids in one vehicle sooner than later (specifically by 4pm today for Taekwondo, as well as all weekend activities).
We will have the rental for at least 3 weeks, so I would love to find a safe alternative installation (that does not involve our 8 year old riding without a booster)-- otherwise I'm afraid we will be mostly housebound until our van is repaired or we replace it (if it is declared a total loss) unless both my husband and myself are able to drive separate cars everywhere (which isn't realistic during the week).
I have left a message for the local police department's certified technician yesterday morning, but did not receive a call back.
If you made it through all this and have any words of wisdom, thank you
My dilemma (this will be long, sorry ):
We have 4 children, all in Britax Frontier 85 seats (that were all replaced the day of the accident-- only 1 had a restrained child, but the airbag system deployed, so we opted to play it safe and replace all 4 seats-- insurance will reimburse for the 1 in use)-- ages 2.5-8.5 (the 8yo has outgrown harnessing, but hers is the only one in booster mode).
In our Odyssey, we had all seats tethered (2nd row LATCH installed, 3rd row belt path/tether because the LATCH is only in the center, but tethers in all positions-- of course booster just tethered). My understanding is that the booster mode seat absolutely has to be tethered with her weight (about 66lbs), and the other 3rd row is my 6 year old (harnessed), and he is about 55lbs, so I prefer that he is tethered as well. The 2.5 and 4.5 year olds ride in the 2nd row, because neither is proficient in buckling and unbuckling consistently without help (the 2 year old obviously can't at all lol, and the 4 year old has difficulty depressing the crotch strap button).
The rental Dodge only has a tether in the 3rd row-- my understanding is that 2 seats should not be tethered to the same anchor point, and this one is in the center (leaving us no space on either side to install another Frontier 85 with the belt path next to it-- I may be wrong, but I feel like due to the weight of the seat, the booster mode F85 should have that tether if a choice has to be made). My daughter does not fit in the low or high back boosters from other manufacturers (they are too narrow-- she has a skinny frame, but her hip span prevents a comfortable fit) that do not need to be tethered, and the 85 in the center position obscures all the buckle access for both outboard positons anyway.
We have the rental company looking for an alternative vehicle in the area for us, but they have had no luck so far and we need to be able to drive our kids in one vehicle sooner than later (specifically by 4pm today for Taekwondo, as well as all weekend activities).
We will have the rental for at least 3 weeks, so I would love to find a safe alternative installation (that does not involve our 8 year old riding without a booster)-- otherwise I'm afraid we will be mostly housebound until our van is repaired or we replace it (if it is declared a total loss) unless both my husband and myself are able to drive separate cars everywhere (which isn't realistic during the week).
I have left a message for the local police department's certified technician yesterday morning, but did not receive a call back.
If you made it through all this and have any words of wisdom, thank you