I explain to DH why we can't use the Touriva as a spare seat anymore, and what our options are, buy new spare seat or new seat for his car. There were no arguments. He wants to make the Uptown in his car the spare seat, and he wants a new car seat for his car. But he's envious of my BV, well DS's BV, that's in my car. He told me he was tired of having the "lesser" seat, for want of a better word. DS is still RF and will for a while (27lbs at 2.5 yo), so I think we'll get a Recaro if they live up to the hype. It means I won't have it in my car until DS hits 33lbs, but I can wait. I never thought DH would care about carseats, but apparently he does.