So after the fact, I found out that some of the kids did travel on a smaller bus that day. I'm fairly certain that my DD traveled on the bus I was told she would be on that day (one that appeared like a big full sized bus to me), but we will have numerous field trips this year with another one approaching quickly. In addition, these are not one mile trips at 30 MPH and some are 65 MPH freeway trips and/or hilly, winding roads. And technically, my DD is a little small for compartmentalization to work well so even sending her on the regular bus makes me a little nervous.
I don't know the details on this smaller bus. Could they just be different sized full sized buses or should I assume it is a mini bus? What is the definition of a mini bus? And mini buses would require 5 year olds to be harnessed? Is that right? The school also owns a van bus and am I correct that those definitely require harnesses and are not considered very safe? I'm trying to figure out how to have an informative conversation with someone at the school about this (and who to talk to).
I need to be prepared, not only so I ask the right questions and am able to get the right information and handle this, but also so that I sound knowledgeable and give a respectable impression. Based on the reactions I got last time, I don't think anyone else has ever asked about this and they don't get it.
I hate being in this situation, being that one crazy, bothersome parent. Yet, I wonder why no one else is asking and why we are not being told up front without having to ask. Shouldn't the way our children is being transported be a priority? Thank you so much for your help with this!