We are buying a new SUV. We currently have a jeep grand cherokee with our 3 month old DD outboard in a graco and our 2.2 year old son FF in a marathon in middle. I like to ride in the back with the kids and we have no interest in a third row of seating (too scary with rear enders even though they are low in probablility). With safety as our primary concern we are having a heck of time sifting through all the 'info' out there. Thank goodness for this site! We want 4WD and prefer to be up high. No price restrictions, but we buy used so it can't be a brand new model year. Any recommendations? Thanks for your help!