StillThankful
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DD1 has a while before I have to FF her in the Radian XTSL based on weight and height (she is currently 39#, 41" (13.5" torso) and has about 3" clearance above her head).
Unfortunately, I had a mild panic attack one evening last week about how our Radian XTSL would fit in our vehicle forward facing. I worried about this b/c our 95 Odyssey has rigid, high belt stalks and I wasn't sure how it marry with the low profile of the seat.
Therefore, I tested it. I FF the car seat and, to my amazement, if fit perfectly--nice, tight fit. Shortly thereafter, I realized that I had to rush to the bank before it closed and threw the kids in the car. DD1 asked why I had her seat turned around and I explained that I just wanted to see how it fit. I told her that I had to go to the bank and she can sit in the car seat like this for now. While riding in the seat, she says "I love my seat this way." I asked her why and she said "because it's special." I'm not sure what she meant by "special." Maybe "different than usual?"
After the trip to the bank, I immediately RFed her car seat. However, everyday since then she is asking whether her seat can be turned back around saying that she loves it that way.
I feel I really goofed up b/c DD1 never complained of Rfing or expressed a desire to FF. She'll be 4 in September. What do you guys think?
Please learn from my mistake:-( Looking back on it, I should have waited until she was napping to play with the car seat.
Unfortunately, I had a mild panic attack one evening last week about how our Radian XTSL would fit in our vehicle forward facing. I worried about this b/c our 95 Odyssey has rigid, high belt stalks and I wasn't sure how it marry with the low profile of the seat.
Therefore, I tested it. I FF the car seat and, to my amazement, if fit perfectly--nice, tight fit. Shortly thereafter, I realized that I had to rush to the bank before it closed and threw the kids in the car. DD1 asked why I had her seat turned around and I explained that I just wanted to see how it fit. I told her that I had to go to the bank and she can sit in the car seat like this for now. While riding in the seat, she says "I love my seat this way." I asked her why and she said "because it's special." I'm not sure what she meant by "special." Maybe "different than usual?"
After the trip to the bank, I immediately RFed her car seat. However, everyday since then she is asking whether her seat can be turned back around saying that she loves it that way.
I feel I really goofed up b/c DD1 never complained of Rfing or expressed a desire to FF. She'll be 4 in September. What do you guys think?
- turn her now
- wait until she is 4 and FF her
- keep her RF until she maxes out and explain that she is safer this way
Please learn from my mistake:-( Looking back on it, I should have waited until she was napping to play with the car seat.