No, there are no Varios available anymore and they perform really bad in side-crashes.If you do decide to have your husband purchase a seat in Europe one of the versions is the Romer Vario, it was the Britax Laptop when sold in the US. You can do a Google image search to see what it looks like.
The Kiddy (Infinity Pro) has really really good crash results! Even better then some rearfacing seats. In Germany, the Kiddy for a nearly two year old is the best decision you can do (despite importing seats from Sweden). So I really think it is a perfect solution for a special needs situation in US.
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