littleangelfire
Well-known member
I just joined up recently, from a CPS in the area directing me here. I have a 2.5 year old son who's 39lbs. and 39", outgrew his Triumph, and trying to find a bigger seat for him. Anyways, after she told me a few things, i started researching on my own and reading the boards here and all the links. I'm glad my son is safe but I'm sorry I turned him forward facing shortly after his 1st bday. NO ONE mentioned to me then he was safer rear facing. I never knew until this technician that he might need a harnessed seat past 40lbs. either! So, once I started learning all these things I felt a need, even an urgency, in sharing with my mom's group at church. And not a one of them were interested. They were all cool with buying used seats from people they didn't know, putting their 2-3 year olds in belt positioning boosters (because its 'easier') and ff as soon as 1yr/20lbs. Then the other day at the thrift store, I saw 2 gentlemen looking at an obviously old shield car seat, I prayed first and then I told him what I knew, that used car seats in general aren't safe, that shields are less safe, and that he could get a good car seat for as little as $40 at Walmart. He put the seat back (YAY) and said he wasn't sure what kind to get his son. I asked him how old he was and how much he weighed and he wasn't sure, so I just told him to visit Walmart, or call his police station and they'd help him out. Unfortunately 5 minutes later, I saw him pushing the basket that had his son in it. About 15 months old in a carrier! his legs and feet dangling off the end, his head way over the back. Ugh! But I felt like I couldn't butt in anymore, so I didn't. Hopefully he went straight to Walmart.
Today I went to 3 garage sales, all had OLD OLD OLD Car seats for sale. One was a Tshield from 1995! The lady at that one seemed genuinely thankful for the info and she pulled the seat out of the sale. At another sale, I told the lady all 4 of the seats she had out were expired, and she said, well, booster seats don't expire only harnessed seats. Which didn't make any sense anyways, as 2 of the seats were carriers! She seemed rather peeved at me for saying anything. I mean, I'd WANT to know if I was putting my child or anyone elses in danger. I'll keep speaking up. It's just too important. I'd like to get certified some day when I have the money. Trying to save to buy my son a Regent right now.
Today I went to 3 garage sales, all had OLD OLD OLD Car seats for sale. One was a Tshield from 1995! The lady at that one seemed genuinely thankful for the info and she pulled the seat out of the sale. At another sale, I told the lady all 4 of the seats she had out were expired, and she said, well, booster seats don't expire only harnessed seats. Which didn't make any sense anyways, as 2 of the seats were carriers! She seemed rather peeved at me for saying anything. I mean, I'd WANT to know if I was putting my child or anyone elses in danger. I'll keep speaking up. It's just too important. I'd like to get certified some day when I have the money. Trying to save to buy my son a Regent right now.