My questions would be these tests are done in a lab, not in real life, so would those wings obstruct the child's view and would the child be leaning out the shell to look out the window, so when the crash happens would they be thrown out of the wings, therefore making them useless? There is so much that can happen between the car and the child (and the crash) that standard testing in a lab can't cover. No one seat can protect you form everything.
I trust Darin who has said more then once, (I'm paraphrasing as I can't find his exact post so please correct me if I'm wrong) that the statistics show that as long as you have a properly restrained child, the bells and whistles of the seat matter very little in reducing the chances of injury. Granted its not a bad thing to be worried about your child and want to protect them in the best way you can, but I think you can drive yourself crazy worrying about every single possibility.
The best thing you can do is to RF as long as possible, even past 4 if the child will still fit in the seat, so I would buy whichever seat will RF the longest and will be installed properly in your car. Also note that 75% of the side impact injuries were for children under 4, so as you plan on rear-facing till 4 that will significantly reduce your child's chances of injury.