Hello, my daughter is 4yrs old and weighs 30lbs. She has cerebral palsy, dandy-walker Malformation and epilepsy. Although she is 4 she is unable to hold her head up 100% of the time. We have a Graco Sequence 65 convertible carseat that we have been using rear facing. Just recently we had to get a new vehicle in order to fit her wheelchair. My problem is that the carseat no longer fits rear facing while in the reclining position. We have been forced to forward face her now. But she can't hold her head up! Is it still safe to use the recline position while forward facing? Is there a better carseat out there I can buy that will give her better head support? Please send help as we are in the car a lot for Dr appointments and it's vital we use the proper carseat for her.