I don't think there's anything you can actually do, is there? I would have not mailed the upcs until I had the seat.
She is posting & is online right nowsparkle3116 said:I am having a problem with koda&phiasmama. I really didn't want to have to post this publicly, but I feel like I have been more than patient and I don't know what else to do.
We agreed to a trade 9/14/12--her used Frontier 85 for my full set of upcs to get a Britax Boulevard. I sent my end of the trade, and koda&phiasmoma let me know 9/18/12 that she had received them, then koda&phiasmoma notified me 9/26/12 that shipping the Frontier was more expensive than she realized and she wouldn't be able to ship it until the next payday (2 weeks later) unless I was willing to split shipping or she would be happy to send my upcs back. I said I'm sure we can figure something out--how much did they quote you for shipping?,
10/1/2012 I still hadn't heard back from her so I sent another message asking her to just send the upcs back....
10/2/2012 she said, "I'll get them in the mail this week."
10/22/2012 I asked for an updated...no response
10/31/2012 They still hadn't come, so I messaged her again letting her know that this was the last time I would be contacting her before escalating this.
10/31/2012 she said "I will throw them in the mail in the morning no matter what and ill message you as soon as I do."
As of today, I still haven't received the upcs or any further messages
Can somebody help me? I know she has had a lot going on with a move and hurricane Sandy, and other life changes and I totally understand that. I just want to get my upcs back and move on.
Just wanted to post a tip, I won't doubt your story, I don't know you And I know sometimes things happen that are a, what's that phrase? Cataclysm of errors? Comedy of errors! That's what I'm looking for. Stuff happens. What you said is very possible. However, in that case, and in the future, as the seller it is not one sided. You did hear from the other party asking for an update at some point, whether last contac was 10/23 or 10/31, so should have sent her an update if what you said was going to happen...didn't.Ok I'm here I wasn't aware of this thread and just for the record I haven't heard from you since 10/23 I sent them out and they were returned I obviously messed up the address and I messaged you never heard back I've been busy they are seriously sitting in an envelope in my diaper bag, and to be clear it isn't the whole set of UPCs and I'm certainly not going to run off with someone's free seat and then post here like a maniac!
As for selling the frontier there was an issue with that sale because the buyer asked me to ship to another address that wasn't listed in PayPal and the transaction was not "eligible for seller protection" I was put off and she was already nervous because this person messaged her saying I was keeping her UPCs so we agreed to cancel things and she was refunded! Clearly there was no issue there considering she's not over here complaining ?
I don't know if my messages don't always function properly but I have received nothing from you recently and have just been distracted with life, ill admit I'm unorganized and I forget things it's no excuse, please send me your address so we can settle this !
I did message her about them being returned and needing an address but I never heard back , then instead of following up and making sure she got my message I forgot about it and thats obviously my fault.littleangelfire said:Just wanted to post a tip, I won't doubt your story, I don't know you And I know sometimes things happen that are a, what's that phrase? Cataclysm of errors? Comedy of errors! That's what I'm looking for. Stuff happens. What you said is very possible. However, in that case, and in the future, as the seller it is not one sided. You did hear from the other party asking for an update at some point, whether last contac was 10/23 or 10/31, so should have sent her an update if what you said was going to happen...didn't.
I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubtI paid DisneyWorldNanny $50 for a TF cover in February. I haven't received the cover and she has long ago stopped replying to and messages sent via FB and texting.
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