We currently have a 2011 Sienna & a 2009 Forester. We are looking to trade in the Forester. I currently drive the Sienna & loathe it. There are not words strong enough to describe how much I loathe it. So yeah, new vehicle will be for me. I am going back to work, and I'll be commuting 45min-1hr each way & am really looking at SUVs for the 4wd/AWD (the Sienna is AWD). My wife will gladly take over the van, which makes sense since she works close to home & I will be much further away. However, I would like a vehicle that can, at least in a pinch, seat all the kids, though for any longer trips, we'd still have the van, so cargo space is not a must. Kids are 5.5 (48" & 58lbs, currently boostering in a Frontier 85 or Harmony Defender 360) & 22mo twins (36"/27lbs & 33"/22lbs, both currently rfing in Evenflo Triumphs). I also have a Scenara 40rf as a backup seat. I will have to buy at least one new seat, probably an Evenflo Sureride. We're also considering one more kiddo (the twins' SR30 are still okay for a few more years, so that's what we'd use for that), which would make a 3rd row an absolute necessity. I'm looking at approx. 2010 & newer used vehicles & a little overwhelmed w/ the choices. 2013 & newer Pathfinders are a definite possibility, so is Pilot, but finding one at a reasonable price w/ lower miles is hard. Also thinking maybe Ford Flex & Chevy Traverse? Other recommendations? How about Mazda CX-9? In reality, I wouldn't mind a Mazda5, but they're hard to find w/ low miles around here (& I'd be compromising the drivetrain for not *that* much better mileage). Help!