beetlemama
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My daughter is 2y 9m, 35 lbs and 38 inches (not sure of torso height because she won't sit still, but is just over the second highest harness slots on her radian). My plan has been to RF to 1.5" from the top or 45 lbs, whichever came first. However, for the past two months she's been a bear with getting in the seat. She will sit so her legs are up the back of the radian and her back is against the car's seat back and try to use the seabelt to buckle herself in. Then when I get her turned around she'll scream and cry "I not a baby!" I keep waiting for this phase to end and it hasn't. We've tried special car toys, new toys and every other motivational tactic in the book and nothing works anymore. It's to the point where I avoid getting in/out of the car because getting her back in is so difficult, but that isn't realistic either.
Her sister is in a booster, so she's well aware that some kids sit RF and some sit FF, and I'm thinking she decided that she must be RF because she's "a baby" although none of us has ever said that (including her big sis who would love to fit RF still).
The really hard part is that I'm trying to wrestle her in the backseat of a beetle, so I *have* to count on her to get in by herself. She's too tall and heavy for me to lift before we get in the car and force across the car into her seat while I'm bent over trying to fit into the backseat to buckle.
At what age is it less dangerous to have kids FF? I'm really trying to hold out, but it's reaching the point where her fighting has me unable to grocery shop or do other things that I *have* to do, and I have a feeling turning FF would help (if nothing else it would be a lot easier to get leverage to force her into the seat because I could squat in front of her seat instead of trying to get her in from a very odd angle). WWYD?
Her sister is in a booster, so she's well aware that some kids sit RF and some sit FF, and I'm thinking she decided that she must be RF because she's "a baby" although none of us has ever said that (including her big sis who would love to fit RF still).
The really hard part is that I'm trying to wrestle her in the backseat of a beetle, so I *have* to count on her to get in by herself. She's too tall and heavy for me to lift before we get in the car and force across the car into her seat while I'm bent over trying to fit into the backseat to buckle.
At what age is it less dangerous to have kids FF? I'm really trying to hold out, but it's reaching the point where her fighting has me unable to grocery shop or do other things that I *have* to do, and I have a feeling turning FF would help (if nothing else it would be a lot easier to get leverage to force her into the seat because I could squat in front of her seat instead of trying to get her in from a very odd angle). WWYD?