Ducky5306
New member
I don't like to be that person who says "Hey, you're using that car seat wrong!" but I see it EVERY.SINGLE.DAY! :thumbsdown: The other day I was stopped at a red light and the mom next to me had her child (i'm guessing 2-3 y/o) jumping around the car!! No car seat in the car at all! there was a police officer about 2 cars behind us and I did roll my window down (Hers were already down) I just said umm there is a police car behind you and its totally illegal for your son to be unbuckled/not in a car seat! she looked really confused and drove away..
A close friend of mine turned her DD FF at 8 months old because her dh installed the seat and didn't know it was supposed to go RF and she didn't want to hurt his feelings (his feeling are apparently more important then their DD's safety) I tell them that its illegal (Just matter of factly) but they said ehh they don't get stopped by police so its fine.. Another friend put her barely 3 y/o tiny dd in a HBB and yet another friend put her 3.5 y/o in a backless booster (and its a Nautilus so she could have used the harness or the HBB at least!)
What do you say to your friends? nothing? i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings/offend them but I'd also feel AWFUL if something happen to their child and they honestly didn't know any better ya know?
We are all (or at least used to be) part of the same moms group and myself and other members have sent out countless email/message board posts about how important it is to properly use car seats (Articles/etc, not just our opinions lol) and they've viewed/commented so they've read the info but i guess they don't think it could ever happen to them..
Also i'm the odd one of the group who doesn't vax my kiddo so sometimes i get the feeling they automatically disregard anything I say since i'm the weirdo crunchy mom
A close friend of mine turned her DD FF at 8 months old because her dh installed the seat and didn't know it was supposed to go RF and she didn't want to hurt his feelings (his feeling are apparently more important then their DD's safety) I tell them that its illegal (Just matter of factly) but they said ehh they don't get stopped by police so its fine.. Another friend put her barely 3 y/o tiny dd in a HBB and yet another friend put her 3.5 y/o in a backless booster (and its a Nautilus so she could have used the harness or the HBB at least!)
What do you say to your friends? nothing? i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings/offend them but I'd also feel AWFUL if something happen to their child and they honestly didn't know any better ya know?
We are all (or at least used to be) part of the same moms group and myself and other members have sent out countless email/message board posts about how important it is to properly use car seats (Articles/etc, not just our opinions lol) and they've viewed/commented so they've read the info but i guess they don't think it could ever happen to them..
Also i'm the odd one of the group who doesn't vax my kiddo so sometimes i get the feeling they automatically disregard anything I say since i'm the weirdo crunchy mom