I finally worked up the nerve to say something to one of the moms at the daycare my boys go too. Her little girl is in their class....she's about 18-20, FF in an OLD OHS. Now, I don't get into the RF/FF debate with people...I'm just glad to see she's harnessed. SO, we happened to be loading the kids at the same time and one of my boys walked by her car....so when I got him I was standing by her door and got to get a good peak...and yep, old expired nasty seat...so I said, 'I don't mean to step on any toes, but did you know your car seat is expired?" and she looked at me like 'huh?'....so I said many people aren't aware that car seats expire...most are only good for 6yrs...yada yada yada. She said she had no idea, and that someone had given her that seat. Then turns to her dd and says 'well I guess it's time to go car seat shopping!'.....so hopefully she's doing that this weekend. But it was nice to have it be received so well.
Another incident also this week....grandma comes over to buy a PNP from me. Brought her almost 3yr old dgs. Goes to put him in the car, and of course, I'm nosey, so I wasn't far from the car, when she puts him in a HBB and starts putting the seat belt under his arm cause she didn't like the fit. So I pipped in and said 'it doesn't fit, because he's too little for it' and she says 'what?'...so I told her 4 and 40lbs is the MIN to consider for a booster...he needs to be harnessed. And she said 'well that makes sense...I knew this didn't look right!'....so she took out the booster and put the convertible in that she had in the back of her car. She said the daycare lady who helped load him in the booster, put the shoulder belt behind the kid. ACK.