On a parenting forum I am on someone posted pics of their DS (24 mos) sleeping in their (moving) vehicle, and the child had both his shoulders/arms outside the safety seat straps, with only the crotch and side straps holding him in, he was on top of the shoulder strap parts that were buckled. It scares me to think they are driving down the road/highway with nothing but that holding him in. I kindly asked her why he was like that, and she says he pushes the plastic top buckle down then pulls his shoulders and arms out. No matter how tight they put them onhim. Then several others chimed in and said their children also that age do the exact same thing. AND they let it go!!! They all claim to have the belts tight as can be, and the kids can still houdini out of them. So my question is anybody else ever heard of that and how do/did it get handled? It is SUCH a wrong use of the harness and I could see it killing him, she also has him FF at 28 lbs...but thats another story, but with the forces of a wreck, yikes. So what can be done and how do I put it politely w/o peeving a whole bunch of folks off telling them they aren't taking care of their kids safety properly!