So, I posted the other day about my sitter having her 3 year old in a TB and more shockingly her 9 month old FF in a ComfortSport. She asked me today if I had any information regarding why her younger one should be RF. Apparently, her friend told her she was wrong too. I told her all of the reasons I could off hand (thanks for those who replied!) She told me she took her older daughter straight from her bucket(Snugride) to FF. She then told me that people have a difference of opinion and she wouldn't turn her child back around. I told her it is illegal in our state (MO) and told her I would send her some links that she could look over. I don't know what else I can do. Even my DH, who thinks I'm a nut, agreed that the same links I sent her (joel's video, the crash test, the new AAP guidelines and the RF fact sheet from this site) were very compelling. I hope it helps. Somehow I doubt it will. It just makes me sad. I know that not everyone is going to "buy into" ERF. It's going to take a really long time to overcome the 1 year/20 lb mindset. But, my goodness at least abide by the minimum standards.:thumbsdown: