mybabysmomma
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She's 25 months, 27.5 pounds, RFing in a Radian and really starting to hate her carseat. She is sensory defensive, mainly tactile defensive, and cannot stand to be restrained, cuddled or held unless she initiates it. This is posing a serious problem in the car now. She is constantly complaining (screaming) that her harness is too tight, even if it isn't. I've tried putting her in different shirts and pants to see if that helps and it doesn't. Distractions, including food and toys, don't work either. We live 25+ miles from town and it takes a minimum of 20 minutes to get to the places we go. I plan all of our outings around her happy time so she is always rested and fed so that shouldn't be an issue.
I think most of the problem is that the harness is about 1/2 inch below her shoulders so she feels it "pushing" her down. Plus, she is still in the 3rd slot of the Radian, which pulls the harness in closer to her neck. She also complains that the bottom of the seat is too hard for her and hurts her bum and she HATES having the harness around her thighs.
We are moving back to the States in a month and I have a Marathon that I can try her in, but in the meantime, I need some suggestions and/ or help. When we move back, we have an 11 hour flight and I *need* her to like her seat for those 11 hours, KWIM? All of the screaming is really REALLY distracting to me and hard on her brother too (we both have issues with noise) but we have to go out at least 3 days a week.
Thanks for any help and suggestions!
I think most of the problem is that the harness is about 1/2 inch below her shoulders so she feels it "pushing" her down. Plus, she is still in the 3rd slot of the Radian, which pulls the harness in closer to her neck. She also complains that the bottom of the seat is too hard for her and hurts her bum and she HATES having the harness around her thighs.
We are moving back to the States in a month and I have a Marathon that I can try her in, but in the meantime, I need some suggestions and/ or help. When we move back, we have an 11 hour flight and I *need* her to like her seat for those 11 hours, KWIM? All of the screaming is really REALLY distracting to me and hard on her brother too (we both have issues with noise) but we have to go out at least 3 days a week.
Thanks for any help and suggestions!