The following images are helpful when attempting to convince parents to keep their toddlers RF . . . maybe they'll be helpful here, too....
Although, personally, I find these images best suited to convincing parents not to put their toddlers/preschoolers in boosters yet.
The ages you have for the photos are wrong.
The photo on the left is a 1 year old and the photo on the right is a 6 year old.
I posted the orginal photos on the BBB board a few years ago. They are from a text book I have when studying Human Osteology
I'll post back with a link to the original post.
I can look it up in some other texts when I'm next at the Physical Anthropology lab, but from my lecture notes, we were told that the earliest fusion in the spine is at 3 yo. All kids are done at 6 yo. Bone fusion is the joining together of bone, and the process really starts in utero. The bones keep growing and complete growing between certain age ranges. The last bone to fuse is the clavicle at around 25 years of age.
ETA. Here's a link to the original post with the pictures.
http://windsorpeak.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=180970
In the comments, there's more talk about the density of the bone. Bone density increases over time and through force exerted on the bones. Bone density can also be decreased if no forces on our body - the use it or lose it. There's a better explanation by another poster on post #11.
The bones I've dealt with of an infant are much lighter and not as robust, as that of an older child. They aren't as dense because not as much force exerted on them - walking running etc. Think about our little babies that have no muscle strenght, but that develops as they age and use the muscles. It's similar with bones.
I had DS RF until 3 yo. I was going to go for longer, but had surgery and no voice for several weeks. DS freaked out when he couldn't see or hear me. 3 yo is the absolute min. for me to turn FF.
What I like about these photos is that it shows people that their child isn't like someone who is older. Many people want kids to be a big boy or big girl and ride forward facing or in a booster. Well, they're not like an older person. Physiologically, their bodies are different and they need more protection.