Long story shorter- my DD is 2 yrs old and I have her RF. We're in a jam with daycare and the lady that is going to be our backup, and possibly daycare provider 3 days/week said she might need to take DD sometimes in the van, but she has a carseat she can use. I'm sooooo uncomfortable with this, and my husband knows I'm a stickler about this as well, and even he's uncomfortable with it. I thought about okay, what if I get a spare seat and install it RF for her, but I think she needs the room in her van for grandkids. Plus- we'd only be using her 3x/week at most. I don't like that she'd be FF, and I also don't like that someone else is driving her around somewhere. I'll talk more with her tonight about details, but just wondering what you all think?