I understand about not wanting to "get into it" with ppl, if they seem confrontational or if U have yer kids with U, and I agree. I think if I was a CPST (which I may become sooner rather than later
) and had cards to give out, then I'd feel that ppl may actually care about me 'butting in' or correcting them. When it comes to parenting, lots of stuff is looked at by ppl as just preference from parent to parent, not one choice being better than another. Sadly, car safety is one of them
I try to say something if I can, especially if it's something really bad. But when it's something less serious (bundle me or bulky coat, straps a bit loose or clip too low) and it's somebody who I'll see again (like at church) I wonder how to handle it. Should I say something right then, running the risk of them getting offended and not wanting to hear anything else from me? OR do I wait for a good time to bring it into a convo, so that I can potentially give them more advice later, instead of them closing off to me for butting in, kwim?
Today was a good day, tho! Last week I saw a car pull out of the lot w/ a child sitting on the front passengers lap. I thought I recognized the driver, so this week I asked her if it was her that I saw. She said yeah, with a sigh. I told her (nicely) that was dangerous, and she said she knows, and doesnt like giving that many ppl a ride anyway, so she's working on it. A little while later she was talking to her dd near me and said something about another person giving their relative a ride. Then added loudly "Cuz Sam yelled at me" w/ a joking smile. Then we talked a bit and she said she was glad I said something, cuz she did know better, but sometimes ppl need reminders. Im just so glad I went with my gut to help protect a child, instead of being scared of making things weird btwn myself and the other person of whatever.