Blondie87
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I feel soooo bad... - UPDATE
My 2 year old foster son's grandma just picked him up because he is going to spend the weekend with her. I was doing something else when she was buckling him in.. but when I turn to say goodbye to him I then noticed the carseat. It was horrible. It kind of looked like one of the cosco hbb with the harness.. I'm not sure if it was expired or not. Sure looked old.. and the straps were soooo twisted, and his crotch buckle was twisted backwards, and the harness wasn't the buckle kind.
I didn't even say anything! I just froze in shock of the carseat and the next thing I knew that grandma was saying bye and pulling away! I have a Boulevard in my car for him but Judi and her husband just spent like 2 hours installing his RF with the tether, so I wasn't about to take it out. I do have an extra carseat that I forgot about that expires in about a year, but I spaced out.
When she comes to drop him off Sunday I will definately ask her if I can see the carseat, if it's expired I will ask her if we can trade carseats, if she takes my extra and I dipose of hers.. If it's not I will just rethread her harness and untwist it. She is taking him next weekend also. I just feel so bad.. I should have said something, instead I just let her drive off with him in that thing..
Am I horrible?
My 2 year old foster son's grandma just picked him up because he is going to spend the weekend with her. I was doing something else when she was buckling him in.. but when I turn to say goodbye to him I then noticed the carseat. It was horrible. It kind of looked like one of the cosco hbb with the harness.. I'm not sure if it was expired or not. Sure looked old.. and the straps were soooo twisted, and his crotch buckle was twisted backwards, and the harness wasn't the buckle kind.
I didn't even say anything! I just froze in shock of the carseat and the next thing I knew that grandma was saying bye and pulling away! I have a Boulevard in my car for him but Judi and her husband just spent like 2 hours installing his RF with the tether, so I wasn't about to take it out. I do have an extra carseat that I forgot about that expires in about a year, but I spaced out.
When she comes to drop him off Sunday I will definately ask her if I can see the carseat, if it's expired I will ask her if we can trade carseats, if she takes my extra and I dipose of hers.. If it's not I will just rethread her harness and untwist it. She is taking him next weekend also. I just feel so bad.. I should have said something, instead I just let her drive off with him in that thing..
Am I horrible?
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