preschool started. she rides the school bus every day & she wears a lap belt. so she thinks she can get away with just a lap belt in our van. UGH. she says when we get in our van "i hate this seat, i'm a big girl.......i don't like black......james can sit in it...." blah blah blah. refuses to get in her seat til i threaten her. this is NOT the same child. who is this girl? wher edid she come from? she has loved her regent since the day it arrived in february. but now she fights me eveyr step of the way & cries & whines. it makes me very sad & annoyed. i tried talking to her abotu why its safer & she just doesn't get it. ya'll know this gal ain't getting out of the regent til I say so but if i can at least help her understand & accept it it'll make getting in the car much easier. any ideas? do you think she is too young (4yo) for the videos??