Longhorn Lady
New member
I have to post this on here because I know you guys all understand my frustration. Its going to get long.
My boyfriend and I volunteered to take my two nieces (ages 4 and 10) for a week for their parents to make a trip to Mexico. The 10 year old doesn't need a booster anymore but the 4 year old rides in a MA that my boyfriend and I bought for her after her parents stop using a seat altogether a few years ago (they originally had an OHS).
Their parents were to drop the girls off on their way to Mexico, and we are a two hour drive away from their house. When the girls arrive I immediately notice that the 4 year olds carseat is in the BED OF THE TRUCK and the 4 year old just hops out of the backseat of the truck I was LIVID. I mean they had just driven over two hours on 60+ MPH roads with a 4 year old with NO SEAT BELT, NO CARSEAT.
But wait, it gets worse....
As the girls are getting out of the truck, I notice that there are 7, yes SEVEN, more people in the truck including a 17 month old baby. And the baby is not in ANY kind of seat, no seat belt, NOTHING. Just riding on her mom's lap.
I gave them a little speech, since the driver of the truck is my (almost) SIL and she KNOWS my car seat craziness. She knew I was pissed. So they threw the girls' clothes and the 4 year olds MA out of the truck and drove off.
So my boyfriend and I called the cops on them to have someone pull them over and ticket them. But get this...the cop that pulled them over did NOTHING. In fact they didn't have car insurance on the truck, so he ticketed them for that, and they HID the baby underneath a blanket and since she was already sleeping, she didn't make a sound. (I found this out from my SIL who is dumb enough to tell me this. She doesn't even know that I called the cops on her because they were originally pulled over for speeding, so she thinks that's the reason). Once they were ticketed for not having insurance, they all went on their merry way on an 18 hour trip to Mexico with a baby in the back with NO CARSEAT.
I'm so angry for so many obvious reasons. Angry at my SIL for being so stupid and scared to think of how often she travels with my precious 4 year old niece unrestrained. I'm angry that she allowed a baby to ride in her truck without a carseat. She says "well if the mom of the baby gets a ticket for it, than she'll pay for it. Not me because its not my kid." WHAT ABOUT A FREAKING BABY'S LIFE.
And of course I'm angry that the cop that pulled them over didn't do anything about it.
Thanks for listening. I know you people will be equally as outraged. Its hard enough to see children that aren't in carseats when driving on the road but its even harder to see children that you love and care for. UGH.
My boyfriend and I volunteered to take my two nieces (ages 4 and 10) for a week for their parents to make a trip to Mexico. The 10 year old doesn't need a booster anymore but the 4 year old rides in a MA that my boyfriend and I bought for her after her parents stop using a seat altogether a few years ago (they originally had an OHS).
Their parents were to drop the girls off on their way to Mexico, and we are a two hour drive away from their house. When the girls arrive I immediately notice that the 4 year olds carseat is in the BED OF THE TRUCK and the 4 year old just hops out of the backseat of the truck I was LIVID. I mean they had just driven over two hours on 60+ MPH roads with a 4 year old with NO SEAT BELT, NO CARSEAT.
But wait, it gets worse....
As the girls are getting out of the truck, I notice that there are 7, yes SEVEN, more people in the truck including a 17 month old baby. And the baby is not in ANY kind of seat, no seat belt, NOTHING. Just riding on her mom's lap.
I gave them a little speech, since the driver of the truck is my (almost) SIL and she KNOWS my car seat craziness. She knew I was pissed. So they threw the girls' clothes and the 4 year olds MA out of the truck and drove off.
So my boyfriend and I called the cops on them to have someone pull them over and ticket them. But get this...the cop that pulled them over did NOTHING. In fact they didn't have car insurance on the truck, so he ticketed them for that, and they HID the baby underneath a blanket and since she was already sleeping, she didn't make a sound. (I found this out from my SIL who is dumb enough to tell me this. She doesn't even know that I called the cops on her because they were originally pulled over for speeding, so she thinks that's the reason). Once they were ticketed for not having insurance, they all went on their merry way on an 18 hour trip to Mexico with a baby in the back with NO CARSEAT.
I'm so angry for so many obvious reasons. Angry at my SIL for being so stupid and scared to think of how often she travels with my precious 4 year old niece unrestrained. I'm angry that she allowed a baby to ride in her truck without a carseat. She says "well if the mom of the baby gets a ticket for it, than she'll pay for it. Not me because its not my kid." WHAT ABOUT A FREAKING BABY'S LIFE.
And of course I'm angry that the cop that pulled them over didn't do anything about it.
Thanks for listening. I know you people will be equally as outraged. Its hard enough to see children that aren't in carseats when driving on the road but its even harder to see children that you love and care for. UGH.