My ds has begun to really notice that we sit in the car's seats, forward facing, and use the seatbelts. I know that he is at an "arguing" stage (he argues w/me all day, about everything), and yes, I absolutely agree that rearfacing is safest and will not be convinced that forward facing is really okay...BUT even diehard carseat safety fanatics can get frustrated! LOL
I'm 4 mos pregnant, my back is killing me, and I can't reach ds to hand him things in the seat, nor can I easily fight w/him every day about getting in the seat. He's grumpy about riding b/c we can't talk--I can't hear him at all as is. And it's really tough for me to tighten up the Decathlon harness (it's not that much easier forward facing, but it is a tad). I know the phase will pass...but...
I really wish he weighed 33 lbs and HAD to be forward facing or was 3-4 yrs old so that I wouldn't feel really guilty about turning him forward facing.
I know that we shouldn't--I know that--and I wish I didn't want to to make things easier for me.
Please either convince me to keep him rearfacing, offer suggestions to help me keep him rearfacing, or compare forward facing w/tether to rearfacing at this age to ease up on the guilt if we turn him for good.
FWIW, I'm not against buying him another carseat or cover OR a DVD player (ughh $$) if that would help. I'm wondering if I let him pick out a new EFTA or something else if I could end some of the arguments. He likes riding in the Decathlon, but the EFTA is a bit roomier.
I'm so frustrated!
Thanks for your help and support!
henrietta
I'm 4 mos pregnant, my back is killing me, and I can't reach ds to hand him things in the seat, nor can I easily fight w/him every day about getting in the seat. He's grumpy about riding b/c we can't talk--I can't hear him at all as is. And it's really tough for me to tighten up the Decathlon harness (it's not that much easier forward facing, but it is a tad). I know the phase will pass...but...
I really wish he weighed 33 lbs and HAD to be forward facing or was 3-4 yrs old so that I wouldn't feel really guilty about turning him forward facing.
I know that we shouldn't--I know that--and I wish I didn't want to to make things easier for me.
Please either convince me to keep him rearfacing, offer suggestions to help me keep him rearfacing, or compare forward facing w/tether to rearfacing at this age to ease up on the guilt if we turn him for good.
FWIW, I'm not against buying him another carseat or cover OR a DVD player (ughh $$) if that would help. I'm wondering if I let him pick out a new EFTA or something else if I could end some of the arguments. He likes riding in the Decathlon, but the EFTA is a bit roomier.
I'm so frustrated!
Thanks for your help and support!
henrietta