bp2002
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Ok so my SO Adam is currently away for work. About 250 miles from home. We generally dont know where he will be for work until the friday before. He is currently very near his son, C.
Adam didnt listen to me when I told him to take our new nautilus with him, just in case.
Now Adam might be staying in that area until mid next week. (Could possibly come home this weekend, but I work 12 hour shifts sat, sun and monday, so really he would just be alone)
Next week Adam was suppossed to be coming home from where ever (when plans were made we didnt know where he would be) on Wednesday, going to a doctors appointment that he CANT miss on Thursday (14th) and then we were heading out to go pick C up (250 miles away), heading back home (another 250 miles) for an extended weekend with us.
Now Adam will be near C.. could just bring C home with him on wednesday.. still go to the doctor...and just have a little extra time w/ C.
What do I do about a car seat???? C uses a HBB (not one i like) in his moms car.. but Ive never had him in a booster, and he has never ridden in it for more than 1.5 hours, and never for an evening drive that he would sleep during alot of. and Ive never taught Adam proper "booster" behavior (not letting C lean out, blah blah) *I* dont even think C is mature enough to handle such a trip in an HBB..
So.. Do I let him use the booster?? Give him alot of info on what is ok and not ok?? Is an evenflo hbb any good for sleeping??
Do i ship him our nautilus, try to explain to him how to reassemble it? how to install it? (Adam has never used the nautilus, only I have..we just got it!)
Do i *try* to locate one in C's area? Have adam buy it, then try to resell or return to walmart? (I didnt see any in stock near him.. one 40 miles away has limited stock)
AHH! Or do i say, no Adam, drive home Wednesday, we'll go to the doctors, then drive back to C and then home again??
Does adam come home this weekend just to pick up the nautilus and have me install it??
Is there anyother HWH seat that I could buy and return after one day of using?? That i could find easily and use in a dodge charger (doesnt have high headrests)..
C is about 44lbs, and just needs the top slots of the radian, so i think about a 16 inch torso?
What would you do??
Adam didnt listen to me when I told him to take our new nautilus with him, just in case.
Now Adam might be staying in that area until mid next week. (Could possibly come home this weekend, but I work 12 hour shifts sat, sun and monday, so really he would just be alone)
Next week Adam was suppossed to be coming home from where ever (when plans were made we didnt know where he would be) on Wednesday, going to a doctors appointment that he CANT miss on Thursday (14th) and then we were heading out to go pick C up (250 miles away), heading back home (another 250 miles) for an extended weekend with us.
Now Adam will be near C.. could just bring C home with him on wednesday.. still go to the doctor...and just have a little extra time w/ C.
What do I do about a car seat???? C uses a HBB (not one i like) in his moms car.. but Ive never had him in a booster, and he has never ridden in it for more than 1.5 hours, and never for an evening drive that he would sleep during alot of. and Ive never taught Adam proper "booster" behavior (not letting C lean out, blah blah) *I* dont even think C is mature enough to handle such a trip in an HBB..
So.. Do I let him use the booster?? Give him alot of info on what is ok and not ok?? Is an evenflo hbb any good for sleeping??
Do i ship him our nautilus, try to explain to him how to reassemble it? how to install it? (Adam has never used the nautilus, only I have..we just got it!)
Do i *try* to locate one in C's area? Have adam buy it, then try to resell or return to walmart? (I didnt see any in stock near him.. one 40 miles away has limited stock)
AHH! Or do i say, no Adam, drive home Wednesday, we'll go to the doctors, then drive back to C and then home again??
Does adam come home this weekend just to pick up the nautilus and have me install it??
Is there anyother HWH seat that I could buy and return after one day of using?? That i could find easily and use in a dodge charger (doesnt have high headrests)..
C is about 44lbs, and just needs the top slots of the radian, so i think about a 16 inch torso?
What would you do??