DH, DS, and I were leaving Thanksgiving dinner at about the same time SIL was. I opened up the car door to say good-bye but also to check the car seat usage. I had a feeling that they would probably be used wrong. I knew her DS who is 2.5 is riding in some sort of Eddie Bauer seat and I thought I remember reading that there is an Eddie Bauer seat that kids grow out of early. I open up the car door and notice that my nieces shoulders are above the top slots so I told SIL that she was too big for the car seat. I then look over and see that my nephew (who is in the Eddie Bauer seat) is too big for the slots that are being used too (I don't know if these are the top slots or not since it looked like there maybe fabric covering some slots) so I say something to her again. I didn't want to go super checking her seats but it looked like the harness (at least on my niece) was a little too loose. She said that she would have her friend (who is a car seat tech) check it out. When we got into our car, DH said that I seemed like the car seat police and that it seemed like I only looked into the car to check their seats. I told him that I kind of did since I expected them to be used wrong. I'm disappointed in my SIL though. She has a friend who is a tech but still isn't using her seats properly.
Is there a better way to approach people to help them when they are using car seats incorrectly?
Is there a better way to approach people to help them when they are using car seats incorrectly?