So, we traveled 14 hours away to see my husbands new nephew. I didn't get a really good close look, but from what I saw he didn't seem to be buckled in the right way. It looked like the straps were too loose and the chest clip too low. I don't think it would go over very well if I flat out said they were doing it wrong. If I "shared" or "liked" something that was already posted on facebook it might go over better since I've randomly shared and liked car seat stuff before. Is there any post on facebook anywhere that shows the correct postion of the chest clip and how tight the straps should be? If it's something I post myself from somewhere outside of facebook and they see it didn't come from somewhere else on facebook it won't go over well.