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A friend of mine bought a TA ysterday for her 11.5 month old son. FINALLY! He's 25 pounds and has been in an Evenflo buckt up until now. She knew he was too big, she just didn't want to buy another seat.
So, she called me from Target and asked me what seat to buy, I told her a TA because it's in her price range and a great seat for her needs.
She told me today she wanted me to check it for her and get it in tighter. She said the top strap wasn't tight enough, I told her she shouldn't be using tha anyway, it's only for FF. She told me he IS FF now. "He'll be a year old in two weeks, it's fine. Besides, he's 25 pounds." Oka, she knows it's safer, she just doesn't care. Not in a cold hearted doesn't care about her kid ay, just an air headed "it'll never matter" way. I love the girl, but she is a bit of a bubble head.
Here's the issue... I KNOW it's wrong. She never locked the seatbelt with the old seat and forbade me to do it (why do people do that?) His straps were never tight (I tried to tighten them once... it really was almost impossible). She loves this seat and is so happy she can keep the straps tight, she just wants to make sure it's in right. She's of the opinion that it's safe enough at a year old, her pediatrician told her it was fine, it wouldn't be legal if it was dangerous, etc. Her mind it made up, she wants the kid FF.
His birthday is in two weeks. My options are either to fix the seat for her now and make sure he's as safe as he can be in the FF seat... or not. I could tell her that it's illegal to FF before a year and I cannot legally assist her and will not do it, but will do it for her on his first birthday. Except then I might lose the chance to do it altogether.
My nephew was FF before a year... we all remember that fiasco I'm sure. With the situation I chose to install the seat FF correctly, because I knew it was either FF with a good install or FF with a bad one. This is pretty much the same, unfortunately.
I'm stoked she got the TA, though. It'll do very well for her needs.
So, she called me from Target and asked me what seat to buy, I told her a TA because it's in her price range and a great seat for her needs.
She told me today she wanted me to check it for her and get it in tighter. She said the top strap wasn't tight enough, I told her she shouldn't be using tha anyway, it's only for FF. She told me he IS FF now. "He'll be a year old in two weeks, it's fine. Besides, he's 25 pounds." Oka, she knows it's safer, she just doesn't care. Not in a cold hearted doesn't care about her kid ay, just an air headed "it'll never matter" way. I love the girl, but she is a bit of a bubble head.
Here's the issue... I KNOW it's wrong. She never locked the seatbelt with the old seat and forbade me to do it (why do people do that?) His straps were never tight (I tried to tighten them once... it really was almost impossible). She loves this seat and is so happy she can keep the straps tight, she just wants to make sure it's in right. She's of the opinion that it's safe enough at a year old, her pediatrician told her it was fine, it wouldn't be legal if it was dangerous, etc. Her mind it made up, she wants the kid FF.
His birthday is in two weeks. My options are either to fix the seat for her now and make sure he's as safe as he can be in the FF seat... or not. I could tell her that it's illegal to FF before a year and I cannot legally assist her and will not do it, but will do it for her on his first birthday. Except then I might lose the chance to do it altogether.
My nephew was FF before a year... we all remember that fiasco I'm sure. With the situation I chose to install the seat FF correctly, because I knew it was either FF with a good install or FF with a bad one. This is pretty much the same, unfortunately.
I'm stoked she got the TA, though. It'll do very well for her needs.