A family member has asked to borrow my car and will be taking their 1 year old (as in 12 months and 2 days) in it. She is forward facing. How do I handle this, specifically if I am asked to put the seat in or let her use mine? I am not ok with it, but it isn't illegal or my child. I dont want any part of it, but I don't want to piss her off either. She already knows that rf is safer, I have already gone there unsuccessfully.