1mommy
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So I'm great about giving car seat advice to strangers on the internet but I don't know what to say in real life. I have a work friend who just posted pictures of her daughter (around 11 months) with the caption so excited to be turned around. Now I recall her telling me get daughter is in the 99th percentile for height and weight so it's entirely possible she hit 40 pounds already (in a graco convertible). I doubt she has the money to buy a radian or a foonf but I hate seeing her daughter like that. Do I message her on Facebook and ask point blank if her daughter hit 40 pounds and suggest buying a foonf? Do I casually mention it at work and suggest she see a CSPT (the only ones around here are at fire stations). Do I remind her to at least top tether if she doesn't have the budget for a new seat? And suggest buying the Frontier 90 to keep her daughter harnessed as long as possible? (I know it has a 2 year minimum, but this does this count as extenuating circumstances?). Thanks