Weird photo angle but this was DS1 - he was around 4.5y in this picture, 32lbs & 38"ish - no torso obviously lol
I climbed in the passenger side to help in the car seat , doing it from the curb was near impossible to tuck him in & under the tether. He couldn't climb in himself without getting stuck.
I did this for a photo op ... There is NO way I would want to do it everyday :/ I had DS2 in the car too so it wouldn't have even been an option really & since this was a Toyota matrix I wouldn't have been able to Swedish style :/
He was still RF in his seat at this time just not tethered obviously & there's no way DH would have let me buy another seat & so I would have been left to FF
Ugh this just sucks because I don't want to be telling people to FF but there's going to be lots of scenarios & no choices but to FF & what about those who use them for babies & even newborns? Not nearly as challenging but just one more step :/ misuse is high enough without adding extra steps