TeenaMarie
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My niece is 3years and 4months, ff, with us in a Nautulius and used to have a cosco as a secondary seat but she had a growth spurt(litterally went from a 4t to a 5t shirt in six weeks) and now doesn't fit it.
She goes to her fathers every other weekend, and about a month ago my sister noticed that in addition to extreamly loose straps, her ears went to the top of the seat. She explained to him that he needed to have a new seat the next time he took her. When he dropped her off, she was in the same seat.
The next time she went with him my sister had me make a list of seats that'll last, comparable to our seat with prices and she explained them to him. Yet again, he had the same seat. But this time told my sister he doesn't have the money for a new seat so she offered to let him borrow her seat next time.
Friday I droped her off with him, and when I took the seat out for him to use he refused telling me that the seat he had was perfectly safe and when I explained that if he read the instructions his seat would say the childs shoulders cannot go over the straps he said thats a matter of my opinion and that he looked at the seats on the list, that shes too small weight wise for any(she is 37lbs!) And then said he has a booster he could use for her
Could someone please give us a way to help him understand why it is unsafe for him to be using the seat he has or a booster for her. The law doesn't say she must be in a harness, but he seems to be over looking common sense in order to pinch pennys and be stubbon.
I know it would do no good talking to his mother or girlfriend as his mother puts my niece in the front seat of her car(my sister and her have had many arguments about that) and his girlfriends child is six and not in any type of seat, riding in the front of his truck!
She goes to her fathers every other weekend, and about a month ago my sister noticed that in addition to extreamly loose straps, her ears went to the top of the seat. She explained to him that he needed to have a new seat the next time he took her. When he dropped her off, she was in the same seat.
The next time she went with him my sister had me make a list of seats that'll last, comparable to our seat with prices and she explained them to him. Yet again, he had the same seat. But this time told my sister he doesn't have the money for a new seat so she offered to let him borrow her seat next time.
Friday I droped her off with him, and when I took the seat out for him to use he refused telling me that the seat he had was perfectly safe and when I explained that if he read the instructions his seat would say the childs shoulders cannot go over the straps he said thats a matter of my opinion and that he looked at the seats on the list, that shes too small weight wise for any(she is 37lbs!) And then said he has a booster he could use for her
Could someone please give us a way to help him understand why it is unsafe for him to be using the seat he has or a booster for her. The law doesn't say she must be in a harness, but he seems to be over looking common sense in order to pinch pennys and be stubbon.
I know it would do no good talking to his mother or girlfriend as his mother puts my niece in the front seat of her car(my sister and her have had many arguments about that) and his girlfriends child is six and not in any type of seat, riding in the front of his truck!