morninglori
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I had a situation this weekend that I wanted to check in her to see if I could have done differently or safer. It wasn't really an emergency, but it was pretty off-normal.
We (me, DH, DD, DS) were with another family this weekend (Mom, Dad, Son ).
Each family has vehicle and seats for kids. Well, while we were boating, Dad wiped out while tubing and dislocated his shoulder - Sheriff boat/ambulance called and Mom ended up going with Dad to ER in the ambulance, leaving Son-5yo with us.
The situation was how to get us all back to the cabin so that DH could drop me and the kids off so he could then go to the ER to get Mom and Dad (ER is about 40min away from lake). The ride from the lake to the cabin is about 15 miles away (opposite ER) on a twisty,turvy, steep mountain road. DH is not comfortable towing a trailer especially on twisty roads.
Vehicles:
03 Saturn VUE (our car) CA for DS and PW for DD. l/s in all backseat seating positons.
87 4Runner (their car) Century Next Step (yes I know VERY expired-I have told both Mom and Dad 3 years ago, but they still use it - it's also super loose with a rigged top tether on the rollbar :shrug-shoulders. lap only belts in the back seat and lap/shoulder belts in the front seats.
I ended up having all three kids in the VUE with my DD in the middle without a booster. She was the oldest, but only 6.5 - maybe not the heaviest, but I knew she could sit properly and keep skooched all the way back. The Son was in her booster and DS was in his seat. I snapped a pic of her - she actually fell asleep on the way back to the cabin.
The center VUE seat has a slot that helps the seatbelt fit smaller passengers- not too bad of a fit for her, and it's a locking latchplate - which looks huge on her small body. The lap belt looks a little high though. I wondered later if I should have had her sit on a couple of folded towels, would that have helped the lap fit a bit?
We could have detached the boat trailer and had DH drive the 4-Runner with the Son himself, but DH was not really keen on driving it as the carseat is not the only thing that is "rigged" and quirky and it being someone else's vehicle.
We made it back to the cabin without incident and Dad was fine after they popped his shoulder back in place. DH, Mom and Dad got back to the cabin 3 hours after we were dropped off.
Would you guys have done anything different?
We (me, DH, DD, DS) were with another family this weekend (Mom, Dad, Son ).
Each family has vehicle and seats for kids. Well, while we were boating, Dad wiped out while tubing and dislocated his shoulder - Sheriff boat/ambulance called and Mom ended up going with Dad to ER in the ambulance, leaving Son-5yo with us.
The situation was how to get us all back to the cabin so that DH could drop me and the kids off so he could then go to the ER to get Mom and Dad (ER is about 40min away from lake). The ride from the lake to the cabin is about 15 miles away (opposite ER) on a twisty,turvy, steep mountain road. DH is not comfortable towing a trailer especially on twisty roads.
Vehicles:
03 Saturn VUE (our car) CA for DS and PW for DD. l/s in all backseat seating positons.
87 4Runner (their car) Century Next Step (yes I know VERY expired-I have told both Mom and Dad 3 years ago, but they still use it - it's also super loose with a rigged top tether on the rollbar :shrug-shoulders. lap only belts in the back seat and lap/shoulder belts in the front seats.
I ended up having all three kids in the VUE with my DD in the middle without a booster. She was the oldest, but only 6.5 - maybe not the heaviest, but I knew she could sit properly and keep skooched all the way back. The Son was in her booster and DS was in his seat. I snapped a pic of her - she actually fell asleep on the way back to the cabin.
The center VUE seat has a slot that helps the seatbelt fit smaller passengers- not too bad of a fit for her, and it's a locking latchplate - which looks huge on her small body. The lap belt looks a little high though. I wondered later if I should have had her sit on a couple of folded towels, would that have helped the lap fit a bit?
We could have detached the boat trailer and had DH drive the 4-Runner with the Son himself, but DH was not really keen on driving it as the carseat is not the only thing that is "rigged" and quirky and it being someone else's vehicle.
We made it back to the cabin without incident and Dad was fine after they popped his shoulder back in place. DH, Mom and Dad got back to the cabin 3 hours after we were dropped off.
Would you guys have done anything different?