Long time lurker, first time poster. Thanks to this forum I am completely sold on carseat safety and ERF, but I'm not sure what to do about a sticky situation.
My SIL has a history of carseat misuse--I've given her info fromcar-seat.org before, but she basically ignored me. However, this recent development just takes the cake... She posted a photo on Facebook of her 4 YO daughter in a Frontier, with the harness so loose you could even see one of the straps because it was so far down her arm, and the buckle way down by her belly. Meanwhile, her 13 MO boy is of course already FF with loose straps so twisted I don't even understand how my SIL would think that's okay! I am so scared for those kids, but I'm afraid my SIL will either blow me off again or just think I'm being a judgey witch... What would you do?
My SIL has a history of carseat misuse--I've given her info fromcar-seat.org before, but she basically ignored me. However, this recent development just takes the cake... She posted a photo on Facebook of her 4 YO daughter in a Frontier, with the harness so loose you could even see one of the straps because it was so far down her arm, and the buckle way down by her belly. Meanwhile, her 13 MO boy is of course already FF with loose straps so twisted I don't even understand how my SIL would think that's okay! I am so scared for those kids, but I'm afraid my SIL will either blow me off again or just think I'm being a judgey witch... What would you do?