MsFacetious
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I drove up last night to see the Boulevard I gave her FF, passenger side, not even tethered.
I gave them 3 Boulevards. I did this with the agreement that they would be used correctly. Meaning, to the limits of the seats. RF to 33lbs. Also with the understanding that before they turned her, they had to tell me because they had taken off the HUGS and lost them. They wanted to order them themselves but I was still going to do it.
I ALSO gave them 3 extra Boulevard covers, along with 15 large garbage bags of baby clothes up to 24 months.
This baby is the result of IVF after 7 years of trying, then borrowing the money for IVF from family.
I don't even know what to do. I could really use the money I could get from selling those seats. If they aren't going to use them safely they may as well put her in a Scenera.
I finally brought it up with my MIL. Her only concern was that it is illegal. My SIL is under a lot of stress so I'm not supposed to talk to her about it. (But I'm not under any stress... right, I won't even go there. Suffice it to say her stress was entirely preventable, mine is out of my control.)
Obviously there is also the fact that I am upset because she has a perfectly healthy kid and the ability to use the seat correctly. My kids have their health issues and I don't have the physical ability to use my seats correctly anymore. So I struggle just to install the seat or put my kids in it correctly... and she won't take the time to do it when it is so simple for her.
I have pretty much decided that they either need to pay me for the seats, give them back to me, use them correctly, or I'm out of their life. I walked away from a best friend because I couldn't handle getting close to her kids if they were unsafe. I'll do the same thing here.
I can NOT handle the stress. Not to mention the liability since I gave her the seats she could turn around and sue me if her kid gets hurt.
I don't know what to do. I drove 6 hours to get up here.... and I have to be here till Friday and all I want to do is leave and go home.
I gave them 3 Boulevards. I did this with the agreement that they would be used correctly. Meaning, to the limits of the seats. RF to 33lbs. Also with the understanding that before they turned her, they had to tell me because they had taken off the HUGS and lost them. They wanted to order them themselves but I was still going to do it.
I ALSO gave them 3 extra Boulevard covers, along with 15 large garbage bags of baby clothes up to 24 months.
This baby is the result of IVF after 7 years of trying, then borrowing the money for IVF from family.
I don't even know what to do. I could really use the money I could get from selling those seats. If they aren't going to use them safely they may as well put her in a Scenera.
I finally brought it up with my MIL. Her only concern was that it is illegal. My SIL is under a lot of stress so I'm not supposed to talk to her about it. (But I'm not under any stress... right, I won't even go there. Suffice it to say her stress was entirely preventable, mine is out of my control.)
Obviously there is also the fact that I am upset because she has a perfectly healthy kid and the ability to use the seat correctly. My kids have their health issues and I don't have the physical ability to use my seats correctly anymore. So I struggle just to install the seat or put my kids in it correctly... and she won't take the time to do it when it is so simple for her.
I have pretty much decided that they either need to pay me for the seats, give them back to me, use them correctly, or I'm out of their life. I walked away from a best friend because I couldn't handle getting close to her kids if they were unsafe. I'll do the same thing here.
I can NOT handle the stress. Not to mention the liability since I gave her the seats she could turn around and sue me if her kid gets hurt.
I don't know what to do. I drove 6 hours to get up here.... and I have to be here till Friday and all I want to do is leave and go home.